We often think of coming out as a one-time event, like a big conversation or announcement. But for LGBTQ+ people, coming out is often a lifelong process shaped by everyday moments, quiet decisions, and ongoing vulnerability. This reflection explores why coming out still matters, especially in a world where many still don’t understand what’s at stake.

What if great sex didn’t have to be mind-blowing every time? The Good Enough Sex model invites us to stop chasing perfection and start valuing connection, pleasure, and realism. In this post, I unpack why most sex falls in the “good enough” category and why that might be more than enough.

Sexual health isn’t just about STI testing or performance. It’s consent, honesty, connection, and pleasure. This post introduces the six principles of sexual health and how they show up in real, diverse, and grounded relationships.

If you’ve worried you might be addicted to porn, you’re not alone. But what if porn isn’t the problem or an addiction at all, and the real story is about shame, stress, or relationships?